Friday, July 29, 2011

What IVF Really Means

I'Ve Failed.

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  1. Ive been reading along for a while, and delurking to say - That F*ing Sucks!

    Im so sorry. xo

    -fellow ttc-er in NY

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  2. Fuck. I've been there so I know how inadequate any words really are. It's really an unbelievable devestation and I'm so sorry you're going through it. I, however, am living proof that it CAN work, if you decide to try again. Thinking of you with hugs, and a big fuck you to the universe for allowing such shitty things.

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  3. im so sorry. ive been nervous for you all day. totally effing sucks!

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  4. You have not failed, far from it. Your time will come... I know this. I know it hurts right now, but you have an incredible woman by your side and friends right here to lean on. Chin up and remember if at first you don't succeed try, try again.

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  5. i echo. you haven't failed, this round didn't work. so so sorry. hope you do nice things for yourself this weekend.

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  6. I am so sorry. (And I know how little that helps...)

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  7. Oh sweets...I'm so sorry. I was thinking about you earlier today and wondering how things were coming along. Big hugs to you both xoxo

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  9. Shit. I'm so sorry. One thing that's been helping me is reading the archives of people (Pomegranate, Nicole, mombians-two-be, etc) who went through more than one round and had successful pregnancies. It's hard to realize that IVF isn't a one-shot guarantee, but those snow-babies of yours will be there waiting for when you are ready to try again, and I've got everything crossed that next summer you'll be meeting them face-to-face.

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  10. So sorry - that sucks ass - Hugs!

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  11. Sweetie look at all those kind, caring and sincere comments. No you did not fail, they just weren't the ones. You don't give up. You will make a wonderful mother and don't forget that. Love ya.

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  12. think about those frosties waiting... hugs.

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  13. Fuck. So sorry hun. Big, bug hugs to you. xoxo

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  14. I hate how words fail me at times like this. I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts right now.

    ~k

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  15. that is fucking shitty... i hope you try again!

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  16. I'm sorry; I was hoping you would get it on the first go-round. Still, you are lucky to have frozen embies. Deep breaths, and jump back on the rollercoaster!

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  17. :( So sorry for you and your family.

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  18. I am so sorry to read this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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